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Should I Leave My Husband Quiz

ByHelen September 29, 2025September 29, 2025

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Should I Leave My Husband? – A Thoughtful Assessment

Should I Leave My Husband?

A thoughtful reflection on your marriage

Important: This quiz is for reflection only and cannot replace professional counseling. Every marriage is unique, and major life decisions deserve careful thought with qualified support. You deserve to be safe, respected, and happy.

Answer all questions for your personal reflection

Question 1

How safe do you feel in your marriage?

Completely safe – physically, emotionally, and mentally
Mostly safe but sometimes worried about emotional reactions
Often feel anxious or walk on eggshells around him
I feel unsafe or have experienced threats or violence

Question 2

Does your husband respect your boundaries and decisions?

Yes, he respects my choices and personal space
Sometimes, but he can be pushy or dismissive
Rarely – he often overrides my decisions or ignores boundaries
No, he controls what I do, who I see, or how I spend money

Question 3

How often do you feel genuinely happy in your marriage?

Often – we have our struggles but overall I’m happy
Sometimes – there are good moments mixed with hard times
Rarely – I feel more lonely or frustrated than happy
Almost never – I can’t remember the last time I felt truly happy

Question 4

Are both of you willing to work on the marriage?

Yes, we both try to improve and have gone to counseling or are open to it
I’m trying but he’s reluctant or inconsistent about working on things
I’m the only one trying – he refuses help or blames me for everything
Neither of us is trying anymore or he’s actively destructive

Question 5

How does he treat you during disagreements?

Respectfully – we can disagree without being mean
Sometimes he raises his voice or says hurtful things
He often yells, name-calls, or makes me feel worthless
He becomes aggressive, threatens me, or destroys things

Question 6

Do you still have trust in your marriage?

Yes, I trust him and feel secure in our relationship
Some trust issues but we’re working on rebuilding
Trust is badly damaged from lies, betrayal, or repeated broken promises
No trust left – he continues to lie or betray me

Question 7

How does this marriage affect your sense of self?

I feel like myself and he supports who I am
Sometimes I feel like I’m losing myself or changing too much
I don’t recognize myself anymore or feel I’ve lost my identity
I feel completely broken, worthless, or like a shell of who I was

Question 8

Are there issues with addiction, infidelity, or abuse?

No, none of these are issues in our marriage
There’s one issue but he’s actively getting help for it
Yes, and he refuses to get help or keeps relapsing
Yes, multiple issues or any form of abuse is present

Question 9

When you imagine your future, how do you feel?

Hopeful about our future together despite current challenges
Uncertain – I’m not sure if we can make it work
Dread or anxiety when thinking about years ahead with him
Relief or hope when I imagine life without him

Question 10

Has the situation improved or worsened over time?

We’ve been working through issues and seeing improvement
Things stay about the same – no better, no worse
It’s slowly getting worse despite my efforts
It’s rapidly declining or has become unbearable

Remember:

This quiz provides perspective, not answers. Please speak with a licensed therapist or counselor who can provide personalized guidance for your specific situation.

If you’re experiencing abuse: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (24/7)