Should I Divorce My Husband Quiz

ByHelen September 22, 2025September 22, 2025

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Should I Divorce My Husband? – Relationship Assessment Quiz

Should I Divorce My Husband?

A thoughtful assessment of your relationship

Please note: This quiz is for reflection purposes only and should not replace professional counseling. Every relationship is unique, and complex decisions deserve careful consideration with qualified guidance.

Answer all questions for your assessment

Question 1

How would you describe communication in your marriage?

We communicate openly and respectfully, even during disagreements
We struggle to communicate but try to work through issues
We rarely talk about important things or often misunderstand each other
Our conversations frequently turn into arguments or one of us shuts down

Question 2

How do you feel about your emotional connection with your husband?

We’re emotionally connected and support each other through good and bad times
We have some emotional distance but still care deeply for each other
I often feel emotionally disconnected or unsupported
I feel emotionally neglected, dismissed, or hurt by my husband

Question 3

How would you rate the level of respect in your marriage?

We treat each other with consistent respect and kindness
We generally respect each other but sometimes say hurtful things
I often feel disrespected or that my opinions don’t matter
There’s frequent name-calling, put-downs, or belittling behavior

Question 4

How do you handle conflicts and disagreements?

We discuss issues calmly and work together to find solutions
We argue sometimes but usually resolve things eventually
We avoid conflicts or they escalate quickly without resolution
Conflicts are explosive, hurtful, or one person dominates/controls

Question 5

How do you feel about intimacy and affection in your relationship?

We maintain a satisfying level of physical and emotional intimacy
Intimacy has decreased but we still show affection for each other
We rarely show physical affection or intimacy
I feel rejected, pressured, or uncomfortable with physical intimacy

Question 6

Do you and your husband share similar life goals and values?

We’re aligned on major life goals and share core values
We have some differences but respect each other’s perspectives
We have significant differences that cause ongoing tension
Our values and goals are fundamentally incompatible

Question 7

How do you feel when you think about your future together?

I’m excited and optimistic about our future together
I have mixed feelings but hope we can work through our issues
I feel uncertain or worried about our future
I dread the thought of continuing this way or feel trapped

Question 8

How supportive is your husband of your personal growth and independence?

He encourages my goals and celebrates my achievements
He’s generally supportive but sometimes seems threatened by my independence
He shows little interest in my personal goals or growth
He discourages my independence or tries to control my choices

Question 9

How do you feel about yourself when you’re in this relationship?

I feel valued, confident, and like the best version of myself
I have good and bad days, but overall feel okay about myself
I often feel criticized, unappreciated, or not good enough
I feel diminished, anxious, or have lost my sense of self

Question 10

Are both of you willing to work on improving the relationship?

Yes, we both actively work on our relationship and seek help when needed
We both want to improve but struggle to make lasting changes
I’m willing to work on it, but he seems resistant to change
One or both of us has given up trying to improve things

Consider Professional Support

Regardless of your results, speaking with a licensed marriage counselor or therapist can provide valuable insights and guidance tailored to your specific situation. They can help you explore your feelings, improve communication, and make informed decisions about your relationship.