75+ Hot Good Morning Messages for Your Boyfriend to Start His Day Right

Okay so, confession time: I used to be terrible at good morning texts. Like, I’d wake up, see my boyfriend’s name on my phone, and my brain would just go completely blank. So I’d send “good morning” and that’s it. Just those two words. No emoji, no personality, nothing. And then I’d wonder why he’d just respond with “morning” back and that would be the whole thrilling conversation.

But here’s what I figured out after way too long of being boring, good morning texts are actually kind of important. Like, you’re the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up, and you have this opportunity to set the tone for his entire day. You can make him smile at 7am before he’s even had coffee. You can make him feel wanted before he’s even gotten out of bed. That’s actually kind of powerful when you think about it.

And the hot good morning texts? Those are next level. Because you’re not just saying “hey, you’re awake, cool,” you’re saying “hey, I woke up thinking about you in very specific ways and I wanted you to know.” You’re reminding him that you’re not just his girlfriend who he does couple stuff with, you’re also the person who finds him incredibly attractive and thinks about him like that.

So I put together 75+ messages that range from sweet-and-a-little-spicy to straight-up-let-me-attack-you-when-I-see-you. Some are playful, some are bold, some are romantic with heat mixed in. Pick whatever matches your vibe that morning, because not every day calls for the same energy, you know?

The Sweet But Spicy Ones (Ease Into It)

These are perfect when you want to be hot without being too intense first thing in the morning. Like, sexy with a smile.

1. “Good morning handsome, I woke up thinking about you and now I can’t think about anything else”
2. “Morning babe, hope you slept well because I dreamed about you all night and they were really good dreams”
3. “Good morning to my favorite person who I definitely want to kiss right now. And maybe other things”
4. “Woke up wishing you were here so I could show you good morning properly instead of just texting about it”
5. “Good morning beautiful, just so you know, you were my first thought when I opened my eyes”
6. “Morning, I’m lying here thinking about the last time I woke up next to you and missing that a lot”
7. “Good morning babe, you looked really good in my dreams last night, just thought you should know”
8. “Morning handsome, starting my day thinking about your lips and where I want them”
9. “Good morning, wish I could roll over and wake you up the fun way instead of sending this text”
10. “Morning love, I’m awake and I’m thinking about you and both of those things are making me very happy right now”

The Bold Morning Ones (Wake Him Up Right)

When you want to make sure he’s AWAKE and thinking about you immediately, send one of these.

11. “Good morning, I need you to know I woke up wanting you and that feeling hasn’t gone away yet”
12. “Morning babe, fair warning, when I see you later I’m attacking you immediately”
13. “Good morning, I’m in bed thinking about what I want to do to you and it’s a pretty long list”
14. “Morning handsome, I woke up horny and you’re the reason, so this is basically your fault”
15. “Good morning, just wanted to let you know I’m not wearing much and thinking about you”
16. “Morning babe, had a dream about us that was so hot I woke up disappointed you weren’t actually here”
17. “Good morning, I need your hands on me ASAP, just putting that out into the universe”
18. “Morning love, I’m supposed to be getting ready for my day but all I can think about is you and me and no clothes”
19. “Good morning, I want you so bad right now and you’re not even awake yet to do anything about it”
20. “Morning handsome, skip the coffee, I’ll wake you up better than caffeine ever could”

The Playful Teasing Ones (Make Him Smile)

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These are flirty and fun, perfect for making him grin at his phone while he’s still half asleep.

21. “Good morning to the guy who makes it very hard to focus on anything productive all day”
22. “Morning babe, hope you’re ready for today because I have plans. For tonight. With you. No clothes allowed”
23. “Good morning, I’d say sweet dreams but I kind of hope you had dirty dreams. About me. Obviously”
24. “Morning handsome, you’re cute when you sleep but I prefer you awake and paying attention to me”
25. “Good morning, just reminding you that you’re mine and I’m thinking about you in ways that would make you blush”
26. “Morning babe, I’m only texting you first because I woke up first, don’t let it go to your head”
27. “Good morning to my favorite distraction who I definitely can’t stop thinking about”
28. “Morning love, I’m awake, you’re probably awake, seems like we should do something about that situation”
29. “Good morning, I have thoughts. Many thoughts. All about you. Come over so I can share them in person”
30. “Morning handsome, rate my morning hair from 1-10. Kidding, come over and mess it up more”

The Romantic and Hot Ones (Best of Both)

These mix the sweet stuff with the spicy stuff, because you can love him AND want to jump him at the same time.

31. “Good morning my love, I fall asleep thinking about you and wake up wanting you, you have complete control over me”
32. “Morning babe, you’re the first thing on my mind every single day and what I’m thinking is pretty rated-R”
33. “Good morning to the man I love more than anything who also drives me absolutely crazy with desire”
34. “Morning handsome, I’m so in love with you and so attracted to you and both feelings are hitting me hard right now”
35. “Good morning, I love you so much and I miss your touch so much and I need both of those things fixed soon”
36. “Morning love, you make my heart happy and my body feel things and I’m grateful for both every single day”
37. “Good morning babe, loving you is my favorite thing and being close to you is what I’m craving right now”
38. “Morning handsome, I love everything about you including all the ways you make me feel that I can’t say in public”
39. “Good morning my everything, I love you deeply and want you desperately and that’s just how I wake up every day”
40. “Morning babe, you’re my person forever and right now my person is making me feel all the feelings”

The “I Miss You” Morning Ones (When You’re Apart)

For those mornings when you wake up in separate beds and you really wish you didn’t.

41. “Good morning, waking up without you is the worst and I want you to know I’m very unhappy about it”
42. “Morning babe, this bed is too empty and too cold and you need to fix that situation soon”
43. “Good morning, I hate waking up alone when I could be waking up next to you instead”
44. “Morning handsome, I miss your arms around me and your breath on my neck and literally everything”
45. “Good morning love, counting down the hours until I can actually touch you instead of just texting about it”
46. “Morning babe, I woke up reaching for you and you weren’t there and now I’m sad and also really want you”
47. “Good morning, this distance thing is not working for me, I need you here immediately”
48. “Morning handsome, I’m lying here thinking about what we’d be doing if you were actually here and now I’m frustrated”
49. “Good morning, missing you in ways that are definitely more than just ‘I miss your company’ if you know what I mean”
50. “Morning love, this pillow is a terrible replacement for you and I’m not okay with this arrangement”

The Confidence Booster Ones (Make Him Feel Good)

Start his morning by reminding him how attractive and amazing he is, because everyone needs that sometimes.

51. “Good morning to the sexiest man I know who somehow gets more attractive every single day”
52. “Morning handsome, just wanted to remind you that you’re incredibly hot and I think about that constantly”
53. “Good morning, you looked so good yesterday I’m still not over it and I need a repeat today”
54. “Morning babe, how did I get lucky enough to wake up to someone this attractive? Unfair honestly”
55. “Good morning love, you have no idea how good you look and it’s honestly distracting me from functioning”
56. “Morning handsome, you’re aging like fine wine and I’m very much here for it”
57. “Good morning, I’m so attracted to you it should probably be studied by science or something”
58. “Morning babe, you’re gorgeous and I’m thinking about your body and both of those facts are related”
59. “Good morning to my incredibly sexy boyfriend who makes me feel things just by existing”
60. “Morning love, you’re so hot I can’t think straight and it’s 7am, this is what you do to me”

The Anticipation Building Ones (Set Up Later)

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These plant the seed for what’s coming when you actually see him, making him think about it all day.

61. “Good morning, I have plans for you tonight and they all involve us being very, very close”
62. “Morning babe, hope you’re well rested because you’re not getting much sleep tonight”
63. “Good morning handsome, clear your schedule for tonight because I’m keeping you busy”
64. “Morning love, I’ve been thinking about what I want to do when I see you and the list keeps getting longer”
65. “Good morning, tonight I’m showing you exactly what I’ve been thinking about all morning”
66. “Morning babe, get ready because later I’m going to make you forget your own name”
67. “Good morning, I’m counting down the hours until I can get my hands on you properly”
68. “Morning handsome, fair warning, when we’re alone later I’m not letting you leave for a while”
69. “Good morning love, been planning tonight in my head and you’re going to love what I came up with”
70. “Morning babe, tonight’s forecast is 100% chance of us not leaving the bedroom”

The Weekend Morning Ones (No Rush Energy)

Perfect for Saturday or Sunday when you don’t have to rush and can actually enjoy the morning together, or plan to.

71. “Good morning babe, it’s the weekend which means we can stay in bed as long as we want doing whatever we want”
72. “Morning love, no alarm clocks, no schedules, just you and me and all the time in the world”
73. “Good morning handsome, weekend mornings are my favorite because I get to wake up slow with you”
74. “Morning babe, I have zero plans to be productive today except for plans involving you”
75. “Good morning love, let’s not get out of bed today, I have better ideas for what we should be doing”

Bonus Messages (Because 75 Wasn’t Quite Enough)

76. “Good morning, you’re my favorite person and my favorite thought and I want you to start your day knowing that”
77. “Morning babe, I love you and I want you and I’m saying both things before you’ve even had coffee”
78. “Good morning handsome, hope your day is amazing but also hope tonight is even better”

Why Hot Good Morning Texts Actually Matter

Okay so, I know this might sound dramatic, but good morning texts really do set the tone for the whole relationship sometimes. Like, it’s this small thing that shows you’re thinking about him first thing, before you’re even fully awake and functional.

And the hot ones? They remind him that you’re not just going through the motions of being in a relationship. You’re actively attracted to him, you desire him, you think about him in those ways. Guys need that reassurance just like we do, even if they don’t always say it out loud.

I used to think guys didn’t care about romantic gestures or sweet texts or whatever. And then my boyfriend told me he saves the good texts I send him and looks at them when he’s having a bad day. Like, he has a whole folder of screenshots. Which is adorable and also made me realize that this stuff actually matters more than I thought.

The morning texts are especially good because they’re unexpected sometimes. Like, he’s barely awake, grabbing his phone to turn off his alarm, and boom, there’s a message from you telling him you were dreaming about him or you can’t wait to see him or you woke up wanting him. That’s going to stick with him all day, I promise.

When to Send These (Timing Matters)

So here’s what I’ve figured out about timing with good morning texts. You don’t want to send them too early and wake him up, that’s just rude and he’ll be grumpy. But you also don’t want to wait too long or it’s not really a good morning text anymore, it’s more like a “good almost-afternoon” text.

The sweet spot is usually like, around the time you know he normally wakes up, or maybe a few minutes after. If he sets an alarm for 7am, send it at like 7:05. That way he’s awake enough to actually read and appreciate it, but it’s still morning enough to set the tone for his day.

Weekend mornings are different though. Don’t send anything crazy early unless you know he’s a morning person. Nobody wants to wake up to a spicy text at 6am on a Saturday when they were planning to sleep until noon, you know?

And if you’re not sure when he wakes up? Just wait until you see he’s active on his phone or until he texts you first, then respond with something from this list. Better to be a little late than to wake him up and have him associate your texts with his alarm going off.

What If He Doesn’t Respond How You Want?

Real talk for a second. Sometimes you’re going to send what you think is a really hot, really good morning text, and he’s going to respond with like “lol” or “morning” or nothing at all for three hours. And it’s going to make you feel weird and insecure and like maybe you shouldn’t have sent it.

But here’s the thing, that doesn’t mean he didn’t like it or appreciate it. Maybe he’s running late for work and just saw it quickly. Maybe he’s with his family or roommates and can’t respond properly. Maybe he’s terrible at texting in the morning before he’s had coffee and his brain hasn’t fully turned on yet.

My boyfriend is like this. I’ll send him something spicy in the morning and get back “👍” and I used to spiral about it. Like, a thumbs up? That’s it? But then he’d come home and immediately be all over me and reference the text I sent, and I realized he did appreciate it, he just sucks at morning communication via text.

So don’t let a lukewarm response make you stop sending good messages. Judge it by how he acts when you actually see him, not by what emoji he sends back at 7am when he’s half asleep.

Making It Sound Like You

All these messages are just ideas, you know? Starting points. Don’t copy them word for word if that’s not how you actually talk to your boyfriend.

Like, if you never say “babe” then don’t suddenly start now. If you’re more of a “I want to see you” person than a “I need your hands on me” person, that’s fine. Say it your way. The whole point is to communicate what you’re actually feeling in words that feel natural to you.

My boyfriend and I have this dumb inside joke from like, our third date, and sometimes I work that into a morning text and it hits way better than any generic romantic message ever could. Because it’s ours, it’s personal, it’s specific to us.

So take these messages and make them yours. Add his name, reference something you did together, use the pet names you actually use. The personal touches are what make a good text great.

Don’t Overthink It

Here’s my last piece of advice, and it’s the one I wish someone had told me like two years ago: stop overthinking every single text you send.

You’re not writing a dissertation, you’re sending your boyfriend a message to make him smile. If you spend twenty minutes crafting the perfect text, you’ve already spent too long on it. Just say what you’re thinking and hit send.

The best texts I’ve ever sent were the ones I didn’t agonize over. They were just, like, “I woke up thinking about you and wanted you to know” or “good morning, you’re hot, I miss you, bye.” Simple, genuine, and they got better responses than the ones I carefully constructed.

Your boyfriend likes you. He wants to hear from you. He’s not going to judge your morning text like an English teacher grading an essay. He’s just going to be happy you were thinking about him.

So pick a message from this list, or make up your own, and send it tomorrow morning. Don’t delete it seventeen times. Don’t second guess yourself. Just send it and see what happens.

I bet he texts back with something that makes you smile. Or even better, maybe he calls you. Or maybe he shows up at your place later and shows you exactly how much he appreciated that message.

That’s the goal, right? Making each other feel wanted and loved and desired, even through something as simple as a good morning text. It’s not complicated, it’s just communication. You got this. 💕